"I still go to see Carmen every time I’m Atlanta. In May 2016, our 25th reunion year, I went to see her on Friday, before the weekend activities kicked off. As I sat there talking to her, telling her stories about what was going on in my life, it suddenly hit me – if Carmen were still here, she’d have the most up to date iPhone (definitely an iPhone), and would be the queen of selfies. As I set next to her headstone, I knew exactly what to do – take a selfie with her! In that moment, I could hear Carmen laugh and smile as if she was right there next to me.
Just as I know that Carmen would have been the selfie queen, I know that she would have given back to Spelman, she would have earned a Blue Ribbon."